Journey of love...

Growing up watching shahrukh movies and all the impossible bollywood scenarios where people travel half around the globe to meet their love, fight with the parents to get married to the person they love, oh…. How I believed that these were all true…
Yet I always have had those silly high school types of relationships that go nowhere, leave you half empty at night while you fall asleep lustfully thinking about them until the feeling dissipates and the fluttering in your heart fades….when your body blossoms into womanhood, its probably just the lust which attracts the guys first…cant complain…
And then we become a bit more matured after the first heart break and try to run after those keypoints which we didn’t find with the first person… I mean how stupid are we….still not realizing tht we are in search for something else… but we kinda get comfortable with what comes our way and just settle in for it…well there are truly other things which matter which we realize later…
The first heart break…the second one and the ones that follow…we curse ourselves for falling into these relationships…we hate the world for being so cruel to us…we hate those movies which portrayed that every love story has a good ending…lol….
But in reality, these were experiences which helped us grow,mature and realize that we were looking for something else.. we were trying to portray ourselves as something we were not, to grab attention, to make ourselves look appealing to others… to fake and try to like something which we actually hate doing …and then one day, that someone walks into our lives…just the perfect one we wanted for ourselves.. not tht he should have the six packs and the prominent features and the killing dashing looks… but just tht he is perfect for us….why??? coz he cares for us just how we wanted , he loves us just how we wanted to be loved, he looks at us and we melt away, he holds us and we feel we can face the world together cme what may…he smiles at us and we know everythings gonna be ok….how lucky are those who finds this eternal peace in life….it is again taking us to the fantasy world we were in as a teenager..tells us tht the hero does travel half the globe if he needs to see u, he fights with his parents if he really wants to spend his life with u , he would treat u like a princess with all the love tht he has …and then the duo song plays again in the background, where we can move from the snow capped mountains to the ocean shores, from the sand dunes to the thick forestery…and we still don’t let go … so in love….
So how much of this is actually true…. I don’t know…. I really don’t know…
The feeling of love, it starts as a small seed planted in the pit of your stomach and each day, it grows and grows until your entire body is submerged in this indescribable feeling. But how much can someone love someone..or what can one do for another coz they are in love….
• Be together to share everything and anything in life….simply perfect…. How many are so lucky, so few we can count them on our hand….
• Not be together and still love each other…hmm this is an interesting situation… coz it has a lot of loops in it…
 Distance separation due to work or family or whtever… and still be in as much love and awe for each other…could cry oneself to sleep so many countless nights, it hurts like hell, mentally as well as physically not having them around...There are some that say that “heartache” only exists as a metaphor but all who have gone through it know it is a real and existing pain.
 Being in the same place but not being together..i don’t know family pressure, other resposnibilites…could be anything… but just to know that the other person loves you so much that they would wait for an eternity to be one with you….
 You found ur perfect soulmate..the one who takes u higher, the one who appreciates u as the person u r , the one who reads and understands ur silence, the one with whom you can spend the rest of ur lifetime with… but cant be together with them ever… why ??? coz u found them so late in life…maybe after ur marriage…maybe after u became a mother , I don’t know… so what happens then…
We wait for an eternity to be with this one person…to shower all the love on this one person….and is it worth … oh hell yes… coz after all wht u have gone thru, ur questions were answered and ur wish fulfilled thru by meeting this one person…yet u cant afford to stay and be happy with this one person by neglecting and breaking all the bonds u hold in life with others… but u can afford to sacrifice ur whole life and choose not to be with this person coz u cant be selfish abt ur own self for this one single time… hmmm interesting….

If we love someone so much , we can afford to be killed for their happiness, to go thru hell, to see tht one smile on their face, to let them belong to someone else, if that’s where they find their sanctuary of peace lies…and not joking..if our love is true, we can really do this… we can be miles apart and feel the person just next to us, we might not see the person for years, but still have their face freshly engraved in front of ur eyes every morning u get up…we can be a better person thinking if he was with us, I would have been so…we can achieve everything as the only motivation u wanted is wht u have now ..the other persons unending love for u….

We all crave for recognition, for acceptance, for love…and when we don’t get it , we start knocking on all doors possible to get it…sometimes we are lucky … but most of the times we are not… and then we wait…until the cupid walks in….and shows you who you are meant to be with….but do we take tht step always??? sometimes we get so scared of wht happened with us in the past, we hesitate.. sometimes we are so sure but still reluctant to extend our hand towards the person, thinking he wld walk away just like the others…but if we don’t extend this hand,, how could we ever know…when u r born and enter this world, be sure that there is someone who was meant to be with u … if not now, maybe when u r 60 .. but in this journey of love, u will definitely meet him….be optimistic abt this…

When you love someone, and you love them with your heart, it never disappears when you are apart. And when you love someone and you've done all you can do, set them free, and if that love was true, it will all come back to you….you always get what you deserve..it might take time for the perfect gift to fall into ur lap..but not all grapes are low hanging.. the best ones are high up there and when they are ripe enough for you to sit back and enjoy, they will fall rightly when you are under it….