WOMEN

Wow.. this should be a topic to write….
Before I write about it, I want all of you to watch this video….
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NXh-A-_nYKs

I just loved every single point of what he said…its so true…

What does a woman want…to take control of everything, to get someone to listen to her problems, and the ability to think that she can fix everything…(yeah, sure)

What does a man want… to let go of the stress, to do things the easy way, to talk about the best job, car and girls, and do nothing else…. (yeah..always)

Im a woman….a normal ordinary woman… and I normally am being claimed to be nice too… people say im caring , understanding, loving .. a lot of nice things…
Bull crap…. Just like any others…im all of this, when im okie…when everything is going fine for me…if not… then im also the selfish, don’t care abt others, bitchy person.

It takes only a split of a second for things to change in life…and when things do , in the bad direction…we women tend to forget all the good what has happened in life… how well u were treated… how well u were looked after… how many people were around u …and all of tht … we just remember those bad passes that were made, the only times when the promises were not kept…the only times when we were not supported, the only times when we were made to cry….. boom… all the good things just vanish into thin air…

Women need attention 24*7. They want themselves to be treated well, nice things to be said abt them, small little gifts to be presented to them….there is always this unrivalled quest of attention being paid to them….
But I have read somewhere tht what we expect to be done to us, we need to do to others too… but do we care…. Do we ever say “hey u look good today “, do we ever bother to send flowers, do we ever bother to try and pick their self confidence when they need support….No , we don’t….
Why shld we , we are the women .. we need things done to us….

And what if ur man does everything just the way u want him to do .. treat u like a princess… and coz of sth…if he doesn’t say sme nice words to u for sme time… u r pissed… u make accusations…
I tell u … what a pity ….

Im a woman who has been put to test so many ways at different phases of life… sometimes I feel im fortunate looking at the plight of those who are having a dreadful life… sometimes I feel stranded looking at those who have wht I don’t … or looking at wht I cld have been but cursing wht im now…
And I always used to think I lived most of my life for others… but did I really?
Was I always not looking out always for what I wanted…
And if I was getting what I wanted, was I not always wishing for more, or evern trying to protect what I have , treat it well?

I have realised over time… that im no super woman… and when situations are bad… I also sometimes turned out to be the bitchy kind. But there is a goodness in me…which I have nurtured for years.. I don’t want to lose whats the most precious in my life…I don’t want the situations to turn me into a monster im not…

I want to gather up whatever I can…live my life.. coz I have just one…so buckle up girl… its time u give it a go again…
I know I will fall a thousand times.. but I will get up and fight again….I will be let down a thousand times, I will live up to the expectations again… I will be in the dark for ages… but there is always going to be a sunrise after the night…so I will wait for it and get myself walking towards the light…

Learnt lessons… be grateful and appreciate wht u have, don’t let situations ride u , and for heaven sake pls stop complaining!!!