To fall into a relationship is much more easier than to maintain them….im sure everyone has experienced them…..Lets start with the basics… An expecting woman can start a relationship with the new life in her womb… it becomes harder through years to prove to be a good mother…A newly wed wife and husband can start a relationship with the bond of marriage….it becomes harder through years to prove your love, respect and dutiful nature towards staying thru thick and thin….A newly joined student can start a relationship with a student sitting beside him… it becomes harder through years to stay in contact and cherish the years when you were alone on a bench and he came to share his tiffin with you…
We sometimes have an unknown relation to some people in the world….maybe a person whom we see daily on our way to work, but never spoken a word to …. Or maybe a person whom we talk to as our client but don’t know how he/she is actually like…. Or maybe a person whom we have only heard of, and some of their deeds just make a mark in our life…..Its sometimes difficult to explain some relations…. Have you ever imagined why some relations are so simple at times and yet so complicated… have you ever had a friend whom you had fallen in love with but never told them in fear of losing them…..have you ever had a lover whom you loved so much that you decided to breakup with him for him to have a better life….
In everyones life, comes that one person , that one relationship…. One cant give it a name or say who he/she is to us ….. but just because it is so … life feels better… more complete. We find a lot of people who travel with us in life in a limo , cherish those relations who also travel with you in a bus when the limo breaks down…there are times when two people need to step apart, its because they are not perfect …. But then let them stay not so far away, coz inspite of all their imperfections, they bring the best out in you as they are perfect for you….
Relationships are always an important part of life. And I mean all relationships - friendship, love, marriage, relationship by choice, relationship by birth. Learn what makes them tick, why they sometimes go wrong, what one can do about it, and why they are so precious.
I liked the last statement "Learn what makes them tick, why they sometimes go wrong, what one can do about it, and why they are so precious" Makes sense;)
ReplyDeleteVery good article Tilda. U have the potential to become a good scriptwriter or a novelist.
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